Relationships often become mundane. After the sparkles of dating wear off, the mundane of life can settle in. Rather than longing for the magic of the early stages of the relationship, look for ways to find joy in the mundane. There is always something to celebrate if you are on the hunt for it. You might notice that you know how he likes his eggs, or what she likes in her coffee – these little things reflect contentment, settled-ness, and being known. These don’t exist in the glitter of the new, but only in the depth of the mundane. Find joy in it.