Within the realm of friendship, saying no can be difficult. Sometimes there are unspoken rules with friends and we find ourselves saying yes when we would really prefer to say no. Perhaps we are replicating dynamics of relationships with family members where the pattern of pleasing others carries itself over … Read More
The “F” word
Finances that is….Start marriage with an agreed upon financial plan you can both stick with and save yourself many future arguments. Finances are one of the top issues couples argue about so having a pre-determined plan will help you navigate difficult financial decisions that often turn into power struggles. No … Read More
Kids first?
Contrary to popular belief about marriage, it is better to put your spouse first and your children second. The whole family will be happier because the order of the family is known and consistent. Put your spouse first by making time for daily talks, cuddles, and occasional date nights consistently … Read More
Need help saying no?
**This is part 2 in our series on Boundaries…. Do you struggle with saying no? You are not alone. Clients often share how difficult it is saying no to family members. Sometimes the clash becomes cyclical as parents struggle with saying no to children and adult children struggle with … Read More
When has sibling fighting gone too far?
I’ve heard many parents say statements such as “What are siblings for if you don’t fight with them” or “I fought with my brother or sister all the time and I turned out okay”. Having conflicts and disagreements with brothers and sister help many children and teens develop much needed … Read More
Celebrating Dads
Bill Cosby a father himself said “If the new American father feels bewildered and even defeated, let him take comfort from the fact that whatever he does in any fathering situation has a fifty percent chance of being right”. Perhaps what Bill Cosby was getting at in a humorous way … Read More
Fun ways to connect with your kids
Swimming pools, vacations, grilling out, and no school, you guessed it, summer is here. That means the kids are out of school and are looking for something fun to occupy their time. Before children reach their teen years parents are definitely the most influential people in their life. So that … Read More
